Your success in online dating depends on specific skill sets because, who are we kidding, finding a perfect match and getting laid after a dry spell can be hard in the online space when the women (or men) you’re chasing are looking at other profiles. You have to devise skillful strategies to pull the attention of those individuals you are interested in towards your profile. The good news is that there are so many things you can do with your profile to attract people and to qualify as their type.
You’ve heard of stories that begin with something like ‘I didn’t think you’d be my type of guy.’ Well, these strategies will make you that guy.
Here are things you could do to make your profile more appealing to W4M who are seeking men.
Create a great visual story
You might not know this, but you don’t have to bear superior genes to attract the incredibly attractive women you only dream and hear about. All you have to do is learn how to create and tell a moving visual story.
How? Easy – reveal your passions and hobbies. Love to skydive with friends or your dog or travel across the world, share those pictures, and just like that you’re an adventurous person who loves animals, is family-oriented, and loves to travel.
Make women laugh out loud
Who are we kidding? Women love laughing and love the men who make them laugh more. Women are always looking for men with a great sense of humor. So, work on your humorous side and make women laugh. Once you do this, you will have a big number of women chatting you up.
Humor works because the online dating scene gets boring and tedious most of the time. So, if someone sees something light and happy on your profile, the monotony is broken, and you don’t have to try too hard. A great sense of humor says that date with you will not be too boring.
Did you know that your lack of success in online dating could be brought about by the fact that your online profile portrays you as needy,lonely, and even desperate? How? Your profile says that you’re hoping to find an intelligent, fun, and loving woman. Hope shows desperation and loneliness.
What to do instead? Use words that portray the fact that you’re in control and are confident. For example, starting your profile with ‘The perfect lady for me….’ Makes you more attractive.
Have an open-minded attitude
You cannot be deeply stuck in your ways and still believe that you’re attractive. Your profile should show that you’re open-minded and very excited about life, with an insatiable desire to try out new things.
Zero Negative Energy
If you want to find a woman of your dreams, don’t create a list of the things you don’t like or you hate in women. And of course, don’t make your words appear cynical. Negative energy will attract negative results, and then you’ll complain about how unlucky you are.
The other things you should do include: listing more of your interests and creating a fear of missing out.